ASM-142 wrote:JazerNorth wrote:... I don't see what is wrong with a leader telling the boys the troop cannot participate in paint ball, but if they want to go play on their own, to go ahead. It isn't cheating the rules in any manner, nor is it telling the boys how to go around rules. The troop will not support paint ball is what needs to be told to the boys. ...
As a leader to tell a scout that he can not do an activity as a scout but on his own is OK is hypocritical. Would you also tell the scout that on his own he can point a gun at someone, sell and use fireworks, explore an abandoned mine, etc
You can't compare those events as they are different. Pointing a gun at someone is illegal, selling and using fireworks depending on the state is illegal, and exploring an abandoned mine can be illegal and just plain stupid, where as playing paint ball is neither illegal nor stupid. Basically you are trying to compare a non life threatening event with a life threatening event.
We both agree that a troop should not support the paint ball event. That is not argued. We do agree that we give suggestions to the boys on how they can still play paint ball. This is not hypocritical. It is simply helping the boys understand they have different avenues to reach a goal (good or bad) and if they think outside of the box (or scouting for this matter) they can find a solution.
Would I attend? No. Would I suggest the parents to attend? Yes. Would I suggest the ASM and other leaders not to attend? Yes. If a boy does get hurt (see example above) and he says that he attended with the troop (see above) the investigation would find that he really wasn't attending with the troop. The BSA wouldn't be held liable for the event, as everyone was told the troop would not support the event.
What I don't understand is why you think it is so wrong to let them know other avenues? Limiting the boys thinking to only scouting does not help the scout develop. If all CEO's were taught to only think like they are taught in school, we would be in a lot of trouble. Thank goodness they have the ability to think of other avenues to achieve a goal.
