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milominderbinder2 wrote:It's been two weeks, what's happened?
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smtroop168 wrote:... the risk is you’ll only antagonize these individuals, which could backlash on your son.
ScoutingStokes wrote: This same SM stood screaming at one boy one evening at camp - telling him that he was "p***ing him off". He sent him to his tent and told him he couldn't go to dinner - then left me alone with him while he took off with the rest of the Troop to the mess hall. Talk about your Scout Spirit. I hated that I was left alone, but what else could I do except talk to the boy, help him find his neckerchief (the cause of the trouble) and walk him to dinner?
ScoutingStokes wrote:smtroop168 wrote:... the risk is you’ll only antagonize these individuals, which could backlash on your son.
You were right - happened last night.My son had his SM conference. Was signed off on everything else for First Class, but the SM refused to sign off on the rank due to his "Scout Spirit". My boy is a 13 yr old SPL who has never received any training to be in his position. He just spent a week at camp with the SM yelling at him because he could not control the boys. I know this for a fact, I was there for four days with them. By Fri my son was so upset that he didn't even want to stay until camp was over the next morning. That is what the SM sited as his "lack of Scout Spirit". Oh, and that he fights with his younger brother. Because that's so terribly unusual with siblings.
When I called unfair, I was told "Well you wanted him to follow the rules, now he is!"
This same SM stood screaming at one boy one evening at camp - telling him that he was "p***ing him off". He sent him to his tent and told him he couldn't go to dinner - then left me alone with him while he took off with the rest of the Troop to the mess hall. Talk about your Scout Spirit. I hated that I was left alone, but what else could I do except talk to the boy, help him find his neckerchief (the cause of the trouble) and walk him to dinner?
I am submitting my resignation tomorrow. (I would do it today, but I'm out of town.) I will pull my boys out of Scouting until we can find another Troop that operates within the boundaries of national, not to mention reality. I am flabbergasted...and totally disgusted.
Nope, my son is THE SPL. There is a boy who is his ASPL, then PLs and APLs for the two patrols. There is not a boy older or higher in rank than mine in the Troop. Which is why it is frustrating that anyone even EXPECTED a 13 yr old boy to be able to control a Troop, and is now having it held against him that he couldn't!Billiken wrote:Hopefully you will find another troop for your son. He's a junior SPL if he's still a 2nd class and he will learn from his experience.
smtroop168 wrote:It depends on you as to what you want to do with the Summer Camp incident as far as reporting it up through the troop committee and council levels. How old was this scout? What was his demeanor? Did he tell him he would not get to eat until he found his neckerchief?
ScoutingStokes wrote:I am submitting my resignation tomorrow. (I would do it today, but I'm out of town.) I will pull my boys out of Scouting until we can find another Troop that operates within the boundaries of national, not to mention reality. I am flabbergasted...and totally disgusted.
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