Lynda J wrote:We needs to realize that in many school systems sports and band, though often not a graded subject, can affect other grades. I have had boys told if they miss a certain # of practices they are out. Well SCOUTING ISN"T THAT WAY. It is the only youth activity where there is no second string and we don't sit people on the bench and we don't kick them out for not coming every week.
Kids can do both. With out help and our encourgement. If we start telling them that they have to chose between Scouting and school sports Scouting will be the loser and in the long run so will the boy.
Have a boy in band this year. He won't be at our first 8 meetings because of band. Guess what we will welcome him back after that time with open arms. I will not give him a hard time. And even if asked my opinion I will not put his Scouting life above his school life. It isn't fair to him. Yes we do have to start making choices, but in Scouting it shouldn't be an either or.
WOW Lynda!! I couldn't agree with you more. This is exactly my position. We have boys that come in for the last 15 minutes of the meeting while little league football is going on. They get the announcements that way and we are happy to have them when ever they can be there.
I would never suggest that a Scout choose one or the other. Scouting will be there when the Scout can come. I know other leaders that would prefer to treat it just like sports, band, etc. do and always be first.
I do get quite annoyed when Scouts committ to an activity and then don't show up and don't call, etc.
YiS
