When I was asked to become the DAC I pondered it before accepting. I had already heard the worst place to be was between a bear and her cub. The second worse place was between a Mother and her Son's Eagle. I accepted as we had a strong Committee and we had an Eagle Advisor who was point on the Eagle process. Fast forward 9 months and the Eagle Advisor steps down so now I wear both hats.
I suspect it can be a challenging experience for the Scout. We hold Life to Eagle Seminars every other month. They are announced on the District e-mail system. They vary between Tues, Wed, and Thur evening. Sometimes no one shows up. Scouts are asked to bring their parents and a Troop leader. We are lucky if a parent shows up with the Scout. I then receive "urgent" requests to have a Life to Eagle Seminar with a Scout who has been Life x years and has not been able to attend one of the seminars over the past year. I have even had Scouts schedule to meet with me and then not show up. When I call them on their cell phone to see if they are OK I get " oh, I forgot" or " I am not ready to meet and forgot to call you to reschedule."
We go over the Eagle process, the Scouts take notes. Then they come to me to get their project approved. Yet it has not been reviewed or approved by the Troop SM or CC. We then need to send the Scout back to the Troop. We are constantly asked if this will be a good project. I may not know the scout very well so it is difficult to determine if the proposed project is unique and challenging to the Scout. I am seeing more and more scouts not receiving the guidance and or support from the Troop/Team/Crew to have a successful project experience.
When the application is turned in, I meet with the Scout. We go over the application line by line. It is amazing how many Scouts do not want to invest the 30 minutes to do this and then become frustrated when we do not obtain approval from Council to hold the EBOR. It is also amazing how many Scouts have Merit Badge issues that need to get clarified before we can obtain permission from Council to hold the EBOR (Blue cards not signed by the counselor or a Troop representative - how were they processed to award the MB, not enough MBs earned by the Date of the Star, Life BOR, or joining Boy Scouts in December 15th and then having s signed MB for Family Life dated January 20th.
Asking the Scout to get these challenges addressed is a no win situation. I hear more and more that I am preventing the Scout from having the EBOR. No reflection on the minimal effort the Scout and Troop/Team/Crew have done to help the Scout get there.
How about the SM Conference. The Scout says he had it. It entailed 5 minute discussion and the SM signed it. Then the Scout asks me about the upcoming EBOR and I then spend 45 minutes discussing Scouting with the Scout so he is more prepared for his BOR as he had not obtained the support from his Troop/Team/Crew.
How many times I have missed dinner to meet with the Scout to meet because the Scout could not meet at 7 or 8 PM as he had basketball?
How many times we meet with the Scout and the parent is there answering all questions about the paperwork and asking all the questions about the process. Make one wonder who completed the Eagle application, the project workbook. When discussing the Eagle Project the Scout starts of with " My Mom did this preparation and my Dad did this preparation , then we met at the site to do the project," "My Mom typed my project work book for me or typed the Eagle application." These scouts strugge at their EBOR. Boards that should last 25 - 40 minutes lasting 60 minutes + as the Scout is not able to discuss his project or interact with adults (all the MBs were done in the Troop).
And the question comes -- why is the DAC adding things to the Eagle
Yours in Scouting
Robert M.
Woodbadge WE3-47-07
OA Brotherhood
I was reminded that there are 4 things you can not recover:
"The stone after the throw, the word after is's said, the occasion after the loss, the time after it's gone."