ronin718 wrote:We also have kids who do the sports/band/scholar thing and we have no problem with those part-timers.
It's the ones you rarely see at a single event or meeting that you question why they bother.
It's just hard to take a young man seriously when there is no commitment.
So, it is OK to be a "part-time" Scout if it is for a reason that
you approve of? But, if it is for any other reason, then the boy should be tossed to the curb?
In my "glass half full" opinion, if you "rarely" see a Scout, then that means that you
DO see him. He does participate in some Scouting stuff. Whenever he is there, he is learning, and growing in the ideals of Scouting.
What is so terrible with that?
Also, please explain to me exactly how a Scout could complete all of the requirements for a rank, especially that of Eagle, without being active at all. How does a Scout earn 21 merit badges without being active?
The Eagle requirements state that a Scout must be "active" in his Troop for six months after reaching the rank of Life Scout. They further state that a Life Scout must serve "actively" for six months in a POR. That's it - six months - even if the boy is a Life Scout for 2 years, and only served "actively" his very first six months as a Life Scout, he has completed that requirement.
If he only shows up sporadically for Scouting stuff for the next 2+ years, and then decides, months before his 18th birthday, to finish his last Eagle requirement of the service project, I say GREAT! Good for him! He finally got motivated to finish this, and accomplish something!
So what if his reasons do not mirror your reasons. He is not you. He is not there for you. You are there because of, and for, him.