So, I FINALLY received confirmation that my son is in the National database as a participant. I have his Id # and verified it on the jamboreestuff website. We still haven't received a catalog but I've been guaranteed that if I don't receive it by the end of the month they will mail one to us 1st class mail.
Second, my son's NJ Scoutmaster has called and answered a lot of our questions re: medication, equipment, who the heck they were, etc. First meeting will be 3/10. I have a troop roster. We're pretty spread out as our troop involves 5 counties.
The council has faxed letters to my insurance company regarding some of my son's medical issues They are going to fudge his honey fundraiser #s so he gets credit for what he sold last year this year so he should earn at least one free uniform (as well as 30% profit).
So a BIG THANK YOU to all of you that have emailed me and offered your sympathy and advise. It was nice to know I wasn't nuts for thinking things should have been going differently. I would have blown a gasket by now.
So, as of now, he's still on the roster and things are moving. Thanks again everyone.